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December 3, 2004/Kislev 20 5765, Vol. 57, No. 14

Conscience over consequence

Torah study

NEAL KATZ
Parsha Vayeishev/Genesis 37:1-40:23
One of the great debates is the motivation for human behavior. Are people predisposed to acting in a certain manner because they fear external punishment, or can an internal moral compass be cultivated? As children, we are taught that bad behavior is subject to punishment, and so we correct our actions accordingly to avoid further reprimand. Over time, this fear of consequence directs our actions. However, as we grow older, we tend to move away from the simple fear of external consequence to behaviors that emerge from an internalized set of values - our conscience.

This issue of external versus internal motivation is one of the themes addressed in this week's Torah portion. In Genesis 39, we read about the attempted seduction of Joseph by Potiphar's wife. When Joseph resists the temptation of his master's wife, he explains to her, "Look, with me here, my master gives no thought to anything in this house, and all that he owns he has placed in my hands" (Genesis 39:8). Joseph's reluctance to engage Potiphar's wife in sexual activity seems rooted in Joseph's high degree of personal moral character. He knows that Potiphar trusts him.

While this view suffices for the biblical narrative, the rabbinic sages offer a midrash on this passage that expands the reasoning behind Joseph's behavior. In B'reishit Rabbah 87:5, they suggest three possible explanations for Joseph's righteous behavior. The first explanation suggests that Joseph declines Potiphar's wife's advances because he remembers Adam, the first human being. Joseph recalls that Adam violated a minor commandment when he ate the forbidden fruit. Adam's punishment for that transgression was to be banished from the Garden of Eden. If such a punishment could come from a minor sin, surely, Joseph thinks, the punishment for partaking in this major sin, adultery, would be especially grievous. So out of fear of severe divine retribution, Joseph refuses Potiphar's wife.

The second explanation for Joseph's motivation to refuse the advance is that he reflects on what happened to his brother Reuben when he lay with Bilhah, one of his father's concubines. As we learn in Chronicles 5:1-2, Reuben was stripped of his birthright, which was then transferred to Joseph. Joseph fears he too might lose his birthright for a similar violation.

The third explanation imagines that when Joseph refuses the advance, Potiphar's wife becomes despondent and even offers to kill her husband. Joseph angrily responds, "Isn't it enough that I would be counted in the assembly of adulterers, that I should (also) be (counted) in the assembly of murderers?" Here, he refuses Potiphar's wife not out of fear of external punishment, but rather because of the shame, the depth of wrong, that would include him in the "assembly of murderers."

From Adam (a distant relative), to Reuben (Joseph's brother), to Joseph himself, we see that the point of motivation moves ever closer to the self. We learn from this midrash that our internal moral compass - the fear of tainting, through reprehensible action, the divine image planted within us - is of a higher nature than the threat of external punishment. Choices that emerge from a set of internalized values can reflect holiness.

In Judaism, we embrace and promote values that lead us toward righteous behavior. Jewish values are not innate; rather they are acquired through study, prayer, and love of Torah. Once we have internalized Jewish values, we may become beacons of righteous action, doing what is good and right in the eyes of God, and thus bringing honor to God's name.

Neal Katz is the rabbi at Congregation Beth El in Tyler, Texas. Torat Chayim of the Union for Reform Judaism is at www.urj.org/torah.


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