After attending a few LGBTQ family weekends at Camp Tawonga in California, Jonathan Brunn felt ready to attend sleep-away camp there. But Jonathan’s mom, Nancy, was nervous.

Jonathan, 10, has identified as nonbinary — a gender identity that falls somewhere outside the category of male or female — since age 3. Because of that, the San Francisco child has been subjected to bullying at school.

But it didn’t happen at Camp Tawonga, which has been ahead of the curve in welcoming nonbinary and LGBTQ campers and staff.

It turns out that Jonathan isn’t the first nonbinary camper to attend the Jewish camp near Yosemite National Park, and certainly won’t be the last. To accommodate the increasing number of kids like Jonathan, Tawonga will have two all-gender cabins this summer.

While the move is pioneering, it isn’t precedent-setting: According to the Foundation for Jewish Camp, Habonim Dror’s Camp Moshava in Maryland has offered all-gender cabins since 2017, and the foundation itself offered the option to camp counselors attending its Cornerstone Seminar last year.

In the summer of 2016, Jonathan first attended “A Taste of Camp,” a five-night session for younger campers going to sleep-away camp for the first time. While Jonathan’s mom and camp staff had decided beforehand to place Jonathan in a girls’ bunkhouse, the cabin-mates took it upon themselves to call the bunkhouse “all-gender” to make it more inclusive.

The decision to create two such cabins came about organically, according to camp director Becca Meyer. In the last several years, Tawonga had added all-gender restrooms and started a “beyond the binary” campfire in addition to separate girls’ and boys’ campfires. Meyer estimated that about 20 of the 600 campers chose the third option last year.

“Tawonga has a long history of only offering girls’ and boys’ cabins, but it’s become clear in recent years that that doesn’t work for all kids,” Meyer said. “So we wanted to create another option so that all kids can live in a cabin that reflects their gender identity.”

The two cabins (one for children going into fifth and sixth grades and one for seventh and eighth) will accommodate 12 campers and be offered during the fourth session of camp as a pilot program. After that, a decision will be made about making the arrangement permanent.

Unlike the boys’ and girls’ cabins, the all-gender cabins will have a no-nudity rule. Campers can choose to change in the bathroom, in their sleeping bags or behind a privacy curtain.

As for staff, Meyer said that a lot of counselors have expressed interest.

“We haven’t decided yet, but they will be excellent counselors who get additional training in working with diverse campers,” she said.

Meyer added, “As we approach our 100th anniversary (in 2025), we’re doubling down on our commitment to social justice and inclusion, and offering all-gender cabins is one way we’re doing that.”

The response in the Tawonga community has been overwhelmingly positive, Meyer said.

“It’s so heartening to see so many of our campers, alumni and parents expressing their enthusiasm for the pilot and showing their support,” she said.

That includes Jonathan, who is now even more excited to return to Tawonga.

“Since my cabin will be all-gender, no one has to feel left out. Everyone will be included,” said Jonathan.

Nancy Brunn said that while there are plenty of summer camps for kids like Jonathan, she wants her child to have the Jewish summer camp experience.

“Sometimes I’ll talk to parents of other trans and nonbinary kids who think camps for those kids are their only option,” Brunn said. “To hear that the Jewish community has a place that is so welcoming makes the world feel a little more expansive.” JN

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